It’s been two weeks since I had a glorious nine days away from work, away from headaches, away from frustrations and demands. For nine days I was able to hang out with my best friend and sister… a person that I don’t get to see nearly enough. During those nine days, we spent most of our time relaxing, talking, watching movies… It was a time for us to turn off for a bit. Now, after being back at work for two weeks, that vacation seems like a lifetime ago.
I returned to work and hit the ground running. What faced me was a pile of tasks and needs that no one touched while I was gone. The mantra of most of my coworkers is “it’s not my job”. They come in and do the bare minimum that they have to do and call it a day. When I sit back and look at them, they amaze me. The problem is that I don’t have any time to sit back and look at them. That’s because I’m busy bouncing around between four different departments, on top of doing my own job. I do what needs to be done for whatever department it needs done in. I don’t mind. I really don’t, but I become frustrated when certain coworkers can’t even do the job that actually is theirs. They expect everyone else to take care of it for them.
It simply becomes disheartening when you work and work and work and all you get in return is more work. I know that people turn to me because they know that I will work hard and get the job done. I’m glad that they find me dependable. But then I’m stuck trying to get everything done, struggling to get everything done, and there are people sitting there doing nothing.
None of this is anything new. It’s been going on for as long as I’ve been here, only it seems to have gotten worse over the years. I think the problem is the fact that I’m not happy. I’m good at my job, but I don’t love my job. This was never what I dreamed of for myself. I fell into working in television and directing. And every day that I come home frustrated and miserable, I think of my dad. He’s been working in the same job for nearly thirty-five years, and, while he’s good at his job, he doesn’t care for his job. I’ve worked in television for ten years and I feel the same way. I don’t want to be looking back twenty-five years from now and be in the same place my dad is.
When it comes down to it, though, I have a secure job. I’m good at my job and that gives me more security with the company I’m working for. Plus, trying to find another job isn’t the easiest thing in the world to do. Right now I have a job that pays my bills and helps out mom. That’s not something I can toss aside. Granted, it doesn’t leave a lot of wiggle room for things that I would like to do or buy, but you take what you can get. You learn to do without the extras that you’d like to get for yourself.
Right now I’m in a place where I’m simply not happy with my life. I don’t have the things that I want in it. I want to be married. I want to be a mom. I want to be working a job that I’m passionate about. I want to be able to do for the people I care about and not worry about how I’m going to pay the bills as a result. I need to find a change… how to make the change. I’m just not sure what the answer is yet.
There’s a plan for me. I have faith that God has some kind of plan for me, and I know that things will work out in his time. Patience isn’t one of my strongest virtues, though, so it’s a little hard to do sometimes. I’m going to keep holding onto that faith, though, and I will keep looking for the answers. I know they’re there somewhere.
Never forget that God tests his real friends more severely than the lukewarm ones. ~ Kathryn Hulme